7 Stock Show Niceties to Bring Back This Summer
1. Tip Your Hat to the Ladies
If you wear a cowboy hat to show in, tip your hat to the queen as she hands out the ribbon. If you’re a show judge who wears a cowboy hat, and you select a young lady as the champion, tip your hat as you shake her hand. And, general cowboy etiquette says you should always tip your hats to ladies when being introduced.
2. Let the Champions Take Their Pictures First
After the show, there’s always a rush to the backdrop for champions photos. Usually, there is a line. In old school days, the first pictures to be taken were always reserved for the grand champion and reserve champion. This makes sure the judge is definitely in the photos for the champions. It also allows the champions to get their photos promptly before the cattle get even more tired and start acting up. Then, after these photos, it was first come first served. It’s been a long day for everyone. Everyone wants to be finished as soon as possible. The champions have earned it that day, let them go first. However, just because your ranch may have won a championship, that doesn’t give you permission to take your 1 champion photo then say “oh, can I picture the other 13 heifers I have too….while we’re up here?” No, you can’t. Take your one champion picture, then get in line like the rest of the exhibitors.
3. Don’t Crowd the Wash Rack
We try to get to the shows early enough where we can have the wash rack to ourselves. There is nothing worse than having your “system” in place for washing your cattle only to have someone come busting right up in the middle of your cattle. Be patient and share the space respectfully. The same goes for if someone has their cattle tied out somewhere, don’t invade their space. Give them room.
4. Respect the Makeup Ring
In the open shows, lots of times each shoestring kind of “claims” their space in the makeup ring, and then uses the same spot to tie their cattle in and out throughout the day. They might mark their spot by having their rope halters hanging on the fence, or maybe show sticks propped up on the fence, or even their water buckets along the fence. If someone has just vacated their spot, but you know they have more cattle coming, give them space. Don’t jump in and take over their space.
If someone is holding their calf in the makeup ring, don’t lead your calf right on top of them and bump into them and crowd them.
If people are already set-up and have their things together, don’t go messing it up and getting all up in their spots. Respect their space.
5. Respect the Judge
When I was a young exhibitor, after every show, we were expected to shake the judge’s hand and thank him for his time that day, no matter the outcome. If we personally disagreed with his placings, that was a conversation reserved for our immediate family, in the privacy of our truck as we drove home. Judges were treated with respect and admiration for their expertise and time. Newsflash: judges don’t make a lot of money judging shows. Most of them do it out of love and respect for the industry, making just enough to cover their travel expenses. They sure aren’t judging shows because they think that’s the way to make a ton of new friends.
We’ve all seen instances where judges have been bashed, criticized on Facebook, and even in some cases, confronted during shows. A new fad in junior shows is to interrupt the judge while he’s giving reasons to shake his hand. This is distracting, and it doesn’t show respect. If anything, it shows disrespect. If you want to thank the judge, wait until the completion of the show. Please, let’s bring back the respect of our judges and treat them with courtesy.
6. Write Thank You Notes
In the days of texting and Facebook, it seems people have forgotten the importance of personal, handwritten thank-you notes. A handwritten thank you note speaks volumes for your appreciation of the people who help make our shows possible. Texting a show award donor is NOT sufficient. Sending a Facebook message to a show donor is NOT sufficient. Let’s show our donors and volunteers how much we appreciate them this summer by actually taking the time to write a personalized, handwritten thank-you note this summer.
7. Share When you Can, and Don’t Be a Mooch
Back when we were showing at the majors, my dad had his friends from the Panhandle that he would always borrow a flake or two of hay on show day. He swears that giving our heifers a little taste of that sweet alfalfa compared to our regular coastal Bermuda would always “do the trick” and get the heifers full on show day. And likewise, we were glad to share with them too. Be happy to help your fellow exhibitors, whether it’s working together to clean the aisle, dump the wheelbarrow, or offer a cool drink out of your cooler. On the other hand, don’t be the mooch. Don’t be the person who borrows everyone’s water hose, extension cords, or hogs the wash rack.
So, in the spirit of kindness and helping our fellow exhibitors and showman, let’s work as an industry to be nice this summer.